A second chance..

Do you believe in second chances? For sure most people do – a second chance to live and love.  This generation may be a little more complicated when you think about second chances. It’s about trying to move on from a failure in life, may it be career or relationship wise.  Some people tend to do the same thing over and over again til’ everything will turn out the way they want it to be. No matter how rules or boundaries we set for ourselves, there are still things and situations we cannot control. That is why it’s always safe to say: “taking risk is worth it”.  If you also live by the saying “try and try until you succeed”… then this blog post is for you J.

We live our lives every day taking chances. From simple things, like getting up in the morning and doing our daily routine and not worry about how the day would end. There may be times we push ourselves so hard and end up failing. We are caught up in saying ..”there’s always a next time”…”there’s no harm in trying again” ..and so on. We validate ourselves so people won’t judge us. Though this is really not the way one should think. Oftentimes, our expectations in life makes us fail.  Remember, failure is not permanent. Therefore, don’t get stuck in thinking you are a failure. Give yourself another chance.

The first few paragraphs are just prelude to this whole article J. I am going to share things to inspire you on how to go about chances in Life and Love J.

Life in General

•           Take advantage of the chance to gain knowledge in school and from people around you. Getting a college degree is very hard not only financially, but the patience in going thru years of school is tougher.

•           Choose your peers. It’s not always birds of the same feather flock together. Give yourself a chance to be with the right people. Don’t be scared to admit your flaws. True friends will always stand by you- No matter what. You will surely get ahead in life when you identify yourself with good influence people.

•            Change for the better, not for the worst. We often hear this statement. It’s true, some people think that someone will accept them at their worst and there’s no reason to change.  Change is inevitable, so do the right thing.  You will be more appreciated and loved.

•          Be Humble. Kind. Patient. Respectful. Unselfish and Loyal. Live by these values. People will always judge, just try to hold your ground and everything will be fine.

Relationships in General

•          Love is kind, it is not selfish. When it comes to having a significant other there’s a debate between a Need and a Want. Ask yourself. Am I in a relationship because I need someone to Love and build a family til’ I get old? Or, do I want someone to be my partner because I want them to take care of me and provide me with the material things I want and vise-versa? Assess yourself, don’t jump into a relationship when you are not ready to face the challenges.

•           Be a good listener. Often, relationships fail because partners don’t communicate well. If they do, it would always end up in a fight. Give each other a chance to work things out. If it’s unbearable; there’s no use of holding on.

•           If things won’t work out with you and your partner the first time. Move on and meet other people. Have an open-mind that there’s going to be someone who will accept your past. There will always be eyes watching your every move, judge you, bring you down. Don’t let it get into you. It’s your happiness that matters.

•           You hold your own destiny.  You will meet that special person in your life in the most unexpected way. You work on it and make it happen.

•      Be Honest. Responsible. Respectful. Selfless. Loving and Faithful.

(video photo credits to Mr & Mrs. Roth- they are a perfect example of the best second chance in Love) :)

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